Yogyakarta, wapresri.go.id – Vice President (VP) K.H. Ma’ruf Amin gave marriage advice at the wedding procession of Kaesang Pangarep and Erina Sofia Gudono at the Royal Ambarrukmo Hotel Yogyakarta Hall, Jalan Laksda Adisucipto No. 62, Sleman, Yogyakarta, Saturday (10/12/2022).

On this occasion, the VP advised the bride and groom to take good care of their household, especially with mutual understanding.

“Make Ananda’s household a sakinah, harmonious, harmonious, peaceful household,” said the VP.

Furthermore, the VP said that in maintaining a harmonious household, apart from needing a foundation of love and affection, it also needs to be fostered with a sense of mutual understanding. With mutual understanding, the VP believes, husband and wife would be able to understand each other’s mistakes so that they would continue to get along well.

“Mutual understanding is not right, even wrong is understandable. It’s understandable that he’s still not concerned, it’s understandable that he’s in a bad condition, so it’s understandable. That’s called husnu tafahum,” explained the VP.

“On the other hand, suud tafahum [means] is always misunderstood, let alone right or wrong, even right is considered wrong. Because of what? Because it was already from there suud tafahhum. So it’s the same in social life. If it starts from a misunderstanding, suud tafahum, don’t make a mistake, even if it’s true, it’s also wrong,” he added.

Through love and understanding, the VP also convince, these elements are a strong foundation in building a household. He also illustrates that the household is a miniature of society. Thus, the household has an important role in creating a good and harmonious society.

“Not only in the household, but also in social life, if there is mawadah warahmah, mutual love and affection, a harmonious society and nation will surely be built,” concluded the VP.

After delivering the marriage advice, the VP then led a prayer to ask for safety and blessings in married life for the bride and groom.

“O Allah, bless both of them and unite them both in a state of goodness. Make their affairs easy, fulfill all their desires. O Allah, fix all their affairs, both in religious affairs and in world affairs,” the VP prayed.

“O Allah, grant them mawadah warahmah and mutual understanding between them. Grant them pious and pious children and grandchildren, and make their relationship last until the end of their lives,” he concluded.

For information, acting as the guardian of marriage at the procession of the marriage covenant between Kaesang Pangarep and Erina Gudono was Erina’s older brother, Allen Adam Rinaldi Gudono. Meanwhile, Minister of Public Works and Public Housing Basuki Hadimuljono acted as a witness to the marriage, and witness to the marriage from the bride’s side was Minister of State Secretary Pratikno. (NN – BPMI Setwapres)